Monday, November 16, 2009

Drunken Abuser Craig Hensberger Tries to Force Daughter at Schoolhouse Door to Go With Him While Lorraine Tipton Remains in Jail WI

Note: Cross posted from (blogger angelzfury) Anonymoms (we are everywhere).

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Filed under: Activism, Bad Dads, Best interest of the child, Child Abuse, Child Custody, Child Custody Battle, Child Custody Issues, Child Custody Mediation, Child Custody for mothers, Child Protective Services, Child Rape, Child custody for fathers, Children and Domestic Violence, Children who witness abuse, Children's rights, Civil rights, Corrupt Judges, Corrupt bastards, Craig Hensberger, Domestic Abuse, Domestic Violence, Domestic Violence by Proxy, Family Court Reform, Family Courts, Family Rights, Human Rights, Judge David Miron, Judicial Immunity, Lorraine Tipton, Oconto County, Wisconsin — justice4mothers @ 6:35 pm

 

  • Why Is This Mother In Jail?
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  • PRESS RELEASE: WHY IS THIS MOTHER IN JAIL? StopFamilyViolence.org

     

    ….and the daughter runs away from him at the schoolhouse door.  He tries to shove court orders at her.  So he approaches her mother, Lorraine  Tipton.  Seeing he abused Lorraine before, she didn’t want to stick around to possibly get beaten or shot, like what is happening to many mothers these days.   The daughter does not want to go to Grandma’s house, whom daddy Craig lives with, and sleep on the floor.  The daughter does not want Grandma (also seen in video) to force feed her own vomit to her again.  The daughter does not want to ride in a car with drunken daddy and Grandma, and get pulled over for a DUI, like has happened before.  Wisconsin Judge David Miron sees no problem with this.

    Please let Wisconsin authorities know that mother has been put in jail and will remain in jail until the daughter goes with these abusers.  A young girl should not be put in this position!

    1.  Wisconsin Governor Jim Doyle:  email him here.  Call him at 608-266-1212

    2.  Call Wisconsin Attorney General J.B. Van Hollen , 608-266-1221

    3.  Call District Eight (Brown, Door, Kewaunee, Marinette, Oconto, Outagamie and Waupaca counties)

    Chief Judge Sue Bischel
    Deputy Chief Judge D. Todd Ehlers

    District Court Administrator H. Britt Beasley
    414 E. Walnut, Suite 221
    Green Bay, WI 54301-5020
    (920) 448-4280, (4281)

     

    See also: Why Is This Mother In Jail? and Craig Hensburger Has Daughter’s Mother Thrown in Jail Because Daughter Refuses to Be With Abuser

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  • Note: Cross posted from (blogger angelzfury) Anonymoms (we are everywhere).

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    Saturday, May 30, 2009

    Swastika kids' health at risk, social worker testifies (Canada)

     

    [It appears that the parents of the "Swastika kids" are now separated, and each one wants sole custody.]

    http://news.sympatico.msn.ctv.ca/Canada/ContentPosting?newsitemid=CTVNews%2f20090528%2fcustody_battle_090528&feedname=CTV-NATIONAL_V3&show=False&number=0&showbyline=True&subtitle=&detect=&abc=abc&date=True

    Swastika kids' health at risk, social worker testifies

    A social worker testified Thursday that there were health concerns for two young children beyond the white supremacist teachings they were allegedly being given by their parents. The social worker said that the younger child would be kept in a dirty diaper all day long and that his father would ignore the children to watch television or talk to friends over the Internet. 

    The social worker also testified that the parents, who are now separated, showed up at their child's school smelling of alcohol, according to school officials.

    Both parents have asked for sole custody of the children. The girl's biological father says he doesn't want the stepfather to have custody of either child.

    The Winnipeg case has come to national attention after it was heard that one of the children, a girl, once arrived at school with a swastika written on her body.

    The girl and her younger brother were taken from the family by provincial child services officials last year after the schooling incident.

    Social workers have testified that the parents taught the girl to hate black people and other minorities.

    The lawyer for the father of the young boy has argued that his client's racist beliefs are not a child custody issue. The mother has argued the same thing.

    Under Manitoba law, neither the witnesses nor the family can be identified.

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    Wednesday, May 27, 2009

    Media Advisory: ASSEMBLY COMMITTEE TO INVESTIGATE THEPLACEMENT OF CHILDREN WITH BATTERERS

     

    Media Advisory: ASSEMBLY COMMITTEE TO INVESTIGATE THE PLACEMENT OF CHILDREN WITH BATTERERS

    FYI-  Please feel free to circulate this media advisory to any and all reporters and/or blogs that you see fit!  Joyce Murphy from La Jolla (whose ex was just sentenced to 6 years in prison and 5 yrs probation for sex crimes against three girls besides his daughter, so NOW she has her daughter back) will be testifying, along with a few other litigants. 

    Joyce's  local TV station- Channel 10- whose story about her case was posted here recently- has said that they will come to cover her testimony!!!

    Begin forwarded message:

    From: "Hayes-Bautista, Catalina" <Catalina.Hayes-Bautista@asm.ca.gov>

    Date: May 27, 2009 11:30:55 AM PDT

    To: "Hayes-Bautista, Catalina" <Catalina.Hayes-Bautista@asm.ca.gov>

    Subject: Media Advisory: ASSEMBLY COMMITTEE TO INVESTIGATE THE PLACEMENT OF CHILDREN WITH BATTERERS

    Assemblywoman Fiona Ma

    12th Assembly District

    For Immediate Release: May 27, 2009

    Contact: Catalina Hayes-Bautista

    Phone: (916) 319-2012

    Cell: (510) 499-9637 

    Media Advisory

    ASSEMBLY COMMITTEE TO INVESTIGATE THE PLACEMENT OF CHILDREN WITH BATTERERS

    Assemblywoman Ma Holds Select Committee on Domestic Violence hearing to look at whether the interest of the child is taken into account

    WHEN:         Thursday, May 28th at 1:30 pm

    WHERE:       California State Capitol, Sacramento – Room 126

    WHO:            Assemblywoman Fiona Ma, Chair

                            Members of the Select Committee on Domestic Violence

    WHAT:         Assemblywoman Fiona Ma (D-San Francisco), Chair of the Select Committee on Domestic Violence will convene an informational hearing into allegations that family courts are placing children with batterers.  The Committee will hear from victims, experts, judges and advocates on a child’s best interest in the family court system. The hearing seeks to shed light on stories shared with Assemblywoman Fiona Ma by mothers who are victims of domestic violence and have been in the court system for years, fighting for their children’s best interest.

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    Saturday, May 16, 2009

    Kansas ‘Mothers Day’ File Federal Suits, May 11, 2009

    “Exactly two years two the very day “Mothers day”- of the   filing of the Petition at the Inter American Commission Human Rights- Human Rights Violations for the practice and policy of courts routinely placing Battered Mothers children with the abusers. (still pending) however the Jessica Gonzales Case set the precedent (simulcast in 15 languages October 2008) for the upcoming Human Rights Petition” viewed in its entirety on the Stop Family Violence Dombrowski et al v US 2007

    May 11, 2009

    Dombrowski v. Richardson et al
    KS
    Lungstrum
    Other Civil Rights
    Diversity-Personal Injury

    Plaintiff: Claudine Dombrowski Defendant: Hal Richardson, Shawnee County District Court

     

    Gerow v. Gerow
    KS
    Murguia
    Other Civil Rights
    Fed. Question

    Plaintiff: Melody L. Gerow Defendant: George D. Gerow

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    Thursday, May 14, 2009

    Tragic Santa Clara County custody case:Dad suspected in girl's death

     

    http://www.mercurynews.com/breakingnews/ci_12363628

    Tragic Santa Clara County custody case: Dad suspected in girl's death

    By Karen de Sá

    Mercury News

    Posted: 05/13/2009 06:31:55 PM PDT

    Updated: 05/13/2009 10:20:15 PM PDT

    Powerless and tormented, a Campbell mother awaits the story her daughter's bones will tell.

    The remains of Alycia Augusta Mesiti-Allen, 14 when she vanished in August 2006, are now in the hands of toxicologists and coroners. Since March, when cadaver-sniffing dogs found her body buried in the unkempt yard of her father's former Central Valley home, detectives have scoured for evidence from the girl's petite frame.

    Those detectives say the clues point to her father, Mark Edward Mesiti, as a suspect in her death and say an arrest is imminent. With a lengthy criminal past, the 41-year-old was still granted custody of Alycia and her older brother in Santa Clara County Superior Court less than a year before the girl went missing.

    The death of the smiling teen, who loved horses and Shakira, lays bare the intractable choices that family court judges face every day, but the tragic outcome has everyone who worked on Alycia's case looking back wondering what more could have been done.

    The family's legal history is a tangle of allegations traded through restraining orders and court filings. A court investigator described Roberta Allen, now 39, as an unfit mother who had battled with depression. But Alycia's father is now being held on $500,000 bail in a Los Angeles County jail on unrelated charges of child endangerment and running a methamphetamine lab.

    Ceres police say they no longer believe Mesiti's story that the girl ran away during a camping trip with friends and her pet Chihuahua. "Dad's story was he was getting phone calls periodically" from the missing girl, said Sgt. James Robbins. "But it doesn't appear she ever left the house."

    Alycia and her brother, now 19 and in the military, were placed in Mesiti's care by the family court in November 2005. During the previous seven years, court records show, Mesiti had been convicted of state and federal charges, including bank fraud and drunken driving. He also was charged with domestic violence and ordered to attend anger-management classes after pleading guilty to a lesser charge. After failing to comply with court orders to attend drug- and alcohol-treatment programs, he landed in prison for violating probation.

    Danger signs

    Nonetheless, Roberta Allen described her years-long legal battle as "very angled toward Mark. I couldn't afford an attorney. He had one."

    And over the nine months the children lived with their father before Alycia disappeared, police and child welfare workers fielded repeated warnings of danger in their single-family home in a neat, unremarkable Ceres suburb. Beginning in 2005, the children's court-appointed lawyer, Jonnie Herring, reported her concerns, recommending only a supervised, temporary placement with Mesiti due to "sufficient issues and risks to these minors." In 2006, she reported that Mesiti had failed to comply with court orders to enroll his children in school and remain in touch.

    "I am deeply concerned about both minors, especially Alycia," Herring wrote in a report to Santa Clara County Superior Court Judge Vincent Chiarello.

    Allen said she also reported that the children were often hungry, subject to abuse, and unable to call their mother despite her court-ordered visitation and contact rights. Local police confirm they made visits to the home.

    Clearly, the family court had a complex case on its hands with few ideal options when Judge Chiarello granted Mesiti custody. The legal battle had raged for eight years without resolution. The children had been bounced between aunts and grandparents and, in a reflection of the case's complexity, the judge appointed Herring to grant them an independent voice in court. Their parents had gone through mediation, counseling and psychological evaluations.

    "There were a lot of issues with both parents," said Scott Sagaria, a San Jose attorney who represented Mesiti in claims his client made against Allen — including that she'd attempted suicide and once hit her son. Noting attorney-client privilege limited his ability to discuss the case, Sagaria added: "There was a lot of conduct by the mother in the case where, in my opinion, the court had very little alternative."

    Calls to Mesiti's public defender in his Los Angeles case have gone unanswered.

    'No good options'

    Chiarello, too, has declined to comment. But Supervising Family Court Judge Susan Bernardini, who spoke only in generalities and not specifically on the Mesiti case, described the difficulty of serving on her bench. "Cases with no good options are a centerpiece of being a judge in family court," she said. "We have to make a decision no one else will make."

    In the case of a tragic outcome, she added, "You wonder and you look back and you always say: Is there anything anyone could have done?"

    Allen, a former assembly worker now working for a restaurant, was deemed unfit by the court. She had made a frank admission to feeling depressed after what she described as years of persecution by her children's father. Before Chiarello's decision, records show, Allen told the court she had fled multiple states to get away from Mesiti and even to Canada, where she and the children stayed in battered women's shelters.

    But while Mesiti's court filings were formal, typed responses from his private attorney, Allen's pleading letters to judges were handwritten. She reluctantly agreed to sign off on the custody order — in large part, she says, because she could not afford to raise the children without the child-support payments Mesiti had been ordered to make.

    "There were plenty of red flags going up all over the place," she said, "but they wouldn't see them."

    When Alycia disappeared in 2006, Allen said she never believed the girl had simply run off. "I knew in my heart of hearts that she was gone, but no one would listen to me. I was fighting with police, saying 'She's not a runaway, she's a missing person!' " Allen recalled. "But the police stopped taking my calls. They said, 'She'll come home, she'll come home.' "

    And so for 2 1/2 years, Allen went mad with worry. Alycia's disappearance was not elevated to a homicide investigation until the longtime detective on the case retired and Sgt. Robbins, the Ceres investigations supervisor, ordered up a fresh round of interviews.

    Robbins declined to give specifics because the case is still pending, but he said those interviews turned up "detailed information we didn't have the first time." Police obtained a search warrant for Mesiti's former home on Alexis Court, which he is said to have abandoned a few months after Alycia vanished.

    The case broke open with the discovery of Alycia's remains. Within days, police burst into Mesiti's Los Angeles apartment and say they found evidence of a meth lab. Now, he and the girlfriend he had lived with in Ceres face a series of court hearings on drug and child-endangerment charges; the girlfriend's 12-year-old daughter had been living with the couple when they were arrested March 28.

    Girl's memorial

    Mesiti was in jail when his daughter's memorial was held last month in a Cupertino chapel. During the service, a lifetime of classic childhood moments beamed from photos spanning her short decade-and-a-half: Alycia mugging in an oversized T-shirt, stirring a pot of macaroni and cheese and hugging a Snoopy doll. In the last photos, she posed for her eighth-grade prom, a fleeting brush with adolescence.

    For her part, Allen tosses endlessly most nights. She tries to stay focused on her last day with Alycia, when she and her daughter ate tuna sandwiches and splashed in a downtown San Jose fountain.

    Their next encounter would be three years later at the Stanislaus County coroner's office.

    "I couldn't even pick up her personal effects," Allen lamented. "There was nothing. There's just nothing left of her."

    Contact Karen de Sá at kdesa@mercurynews.com or 408-920-5781.

    TIMELINE OF ALYCIA"S DISAPPEARANCE

    Nov. 22, 2005: Santa Clara County Superior Court places Alycia Mesiti-Allen with father, Mark Edward Mesiti.
    Aug. 15, 2006: Alycia, 14, goes missing; her father reports she ran away after leaving for a camping trip with friends and a pet Chihuahua.
    January 2009: Ceres police Sgt. James Robbins takes over the department"s investigative unit and has detectives review their cases. As a result, Alycia"s family members are contacted again and new undisclosed information leads to a search warrant.
    March 26, 2009: After police obtain a search warrant, a body is unearthed outside the Ceres home where Alycia had been living with her father at the time she disappeared.
    March 28: Mark Mesiti, 41, is arrested in Los Angeles along with his 39-year-old girlfriend on suspicion of running a methamphetamine lab and endangering the girlfriend"s 12-year-old daughter. Mesiti is being held on $500,000 bail.
    March 31: Authorities confirm that a body found in Ceres was that of Alycia Mesiti-Allen. Ceres police describe Mesiti as a suspect in his daughter"s death, although he has not been arrested on those charges.

    Source: Mercury News reporting and Ceres police

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    Heather Thompson a DV victim in North Carolina has pounded the desks & doors of Domestic Violence organizations who do nothing but provide false hope

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    Press Release from Bryan Gregory, A retired North Carolina Trooper


    "Heather Thompson may be celebrating her last Mother's Day- if she doesn't receive the help and support that she needs from law enforcement, South and North Carolina Department of Corrections, Public Officials & Domestic Violence Organizations who are paid to serve and protect her"
    Of all except her, I probably know her story better than anyone else. I’m a part of it. I’ve written it. But this woman has had to live it.
    Although May 29 is not that far away and she has mountains to climb before then, she’s taking time this weekend just as we are, to be with her family & Mother. This may be her last one, so as we celebrate this day, let us remember Heather.
    In just a matter of days, her ex-husband and self-described killer will be out of prison. He may be under supervision for awhile, but without GPS monitoring, he’ll be able to go and do as he pleases. There’s no reason we’ve found to believe otherwise … If he carries out the continuous threats that he’s made to her, he’ll kill her.
    She’s pounded on all the desks and doors. She’s been run around in circles by all domestic violence organizations and more. When confronted, they’ll tell you they’re doing all that they can and her needs are being met. But the reality is … They’re filling their pockets with our money and doing nothing.
    We’ve waited until this late hour assuming they’d act … They have not. All her bills are overdue and basic services are threatened to be cut off. If needed, she has places to flee but no back-up money to even get her and her family there. And what if their cell phones are cut off? It infuriates me that I must beg you now to take up their slack.
    Her pretty smile is fading. Heather feels like she’s drowning now with not a life jacket in sight. Although she’s not asked me to do this, I must.

    Here’s her mailing address…
    Heather Thompson
    PO Box 697
    Indian Trail, NC 28079


    I don’t care if you can only scrape up five dollars. Send it to her and she’ll joyfully take it. Because she’s had so much practice, she’s an expert now … She can turn little’s into a whole lot. Your prayers are always welcomed … But if we’re gonna expect God’s help, I’m sure he’d be much more willing once we’ve stepped up to the plate.
    If you’ve not yet read her story, check it out at www.the-babysitter.org

     
    And if you can think of anyone else who might care … Feel free to copy & paste and spread this message everywhere.
    Bryan Gregory
    "Justice will only be achieved when those who are not injured by crime are as angry as those who are."
    - King Solomon (635-577 BC)

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    Tuesday, May 12, 2009

    False Allegations are a Small Factor in The Family Courts

     

    False Allegations are a small factor in the Family Courts

    Even one of the strongest family violence critics admitted that in a majority of child abuse cases had substance in it.

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    anonymums

    FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE

    PRLog (Press Release) – May 12, 2009 – DR Richard A Gardner, the man who coined the term Parent Alienation Syndrome stated, “The vast majority ("probably over 95%") of all sex abuse allegations are valid”.  Gardner, R.A. (1991). Sex Abuse Hysteria: Salem Witch Trials Revisited . Cresskill, NJ: Creative Therapeutics (pp. 7, 140). 
    Like the recent report about St John’s Ambulances “Hush Money for sex abuse victims” fathers rights will have us all believe that most mothers and children are liars when it comes to allegations in the Family Court.  


    This was not true for Cassandra Hasanovic who died at the hands of her ex partner.  The Family Court ignored her pleas and ordered her to return resulting in her death.  The Founder of the Anonymums Collective Stated, ”The falsely accused are among the privileged in the family courts, they can obtain costs and are not required to provide much evidence as the court rules upon the level of substantiation”.  


    In the National Plan to reduce Violence against Women and Their Children it was stated, “The Family Law Amendment (Shared Parental Responsibility) Act 2006, however, represents a potential obstruction to a just and integrated response to family violence in Australia”. 
    Members of Anonymums not only agree to this statement, they understand the grave consequences that surround this lucrative bill.


    Even the Prime Minister said, “As a nation, the time has well and truly come to have a national conversation – a public national conversation, not a private one – about how it could still be the case that in 2008 so many Australian women could have experienced violence from their partner… 
    It is my gender – it is our gender – Australian men – that are responsible.


    And so the question is: what are we going to do about it? 
    …There are no circumstances in which the threat of violence against women is acceptable. There are no circumstances in which the thought of violence against women is acceptable. 
    That on violence against women, we have simple, clear policy in two words: zero tolerance.” 
    “It’s a move in the right direction and will save the government compensation money in the long run” a spokesperson for Anonymums stated.


    The Founder of Anonymums added, “When Diana Bryant said “Family Violence is the Core Business of the Family Court”, many victims have begun to wonder why such force was imposed upon them in a system that is meant to protect them from such things.  Take “Family Violence” and “Core Business” out of this phrase and it becomes clear what she meant when she said this.  Family Violence Victims held captive by the court and perpetrator means that the protective parent will guarantee a great deal of money.  The message becomes clear, “To protect your children, save your life – We will need the children’s home, life savings and anything else you have”.   Either way, the victim is cornered by a bunch of legal clauses and unless they can produce more than what is required for a homicide, the child or the intimate partner violence victim is at the abusers mercy”.  


    The Australian Human Rights Commission made the Following Statement about False Allegations, 
    “HREOC is well aware of the concerns of some individuals and community organizations that false allegations of family violence are regularly made.  For example, i n its submission to a review of legislation regarding protection orders, the Lone Fathers’ Association states that protection orders “are employed as a routine separation procedure” by women to force their husbands out of their homes, without any violence having occurred, “and/or as a vindictive retaliatory act”.


    HREOC would caution against accepting this contention uncritically. There is no doubt that Family Court proceedings often are accompanied by allegations of domestic violence and the use of protection orders. However, this may reflect the fact that domestic violence often escalates when couples separate. Australian data demonstrate that women are as likely to experience violence by previous partners as by current partners and that it is the time around and after separation which is most dangerous for women.” 
    This was in 2005.   It’s been four years since this was noted and many lives at stake, some are embedded upon gravestones, a remembrance of a time when children were once again seen and not heard.

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    Anonymums are: 
    A collective dedicated to creating awareness and action towards improving the family court system. 
    We seek integrity in uphold of the law without discrimination, humiliation, degradation or oppression. 
    We seek to expose those who would continue to lobby for systematic abuse. 
    We will not tolerate oppression, nor will we tolerate trivialized child abuse or corruption. 
    We will not tolerate violence towards anyone

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